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What do men and women want in a relationship?

What do men and women want in a relationship? Find out what we have in common and what we don’t in terms of what we want.

Let’s talk about women first. What does she want?

1. Respect.

Women don’t just cook and clean. She has a job, and she has her aspirations, desires, beliefs, and hobbies. Please don’t act like you’re better than her. Don’t put her in a stereotypical pattern. She has her thoughts and feelings, and even before she met you, she had her own life. Please don’t imagine that without you, she wouldn’t have a purpose. Peer-to-peer conversations lead to a long-term relationships. The woman is not a personal servant but a life partner. And together you can become a successful team.

2. Romance.

What is romance? A state you have that makes you react to show it. Women love to be shown love in both words and deeds.

3. Safety.

She wants someone she can rely on. A mature person who takes responsibility.

4. Sex.

It is part of the relationship and makes the bond stronger. A woman likes a sexually secure man who knows what he wants in the bedroom and is not ashamed to admit it. His confidence also gives her confidence.

5. Time spent together.

When you love someone, you can’t feel this way without wanting to spend time with them, getting to know them, and making them feel good.

6. Communication.

A woman wants to feel that she is listened to. That you are honest with her. If you need help understanding something, you try to make things clear through communication. A woman sometimes does not want to find a solution when communicating. She wants to vent so she doesn’t keep the stress and pressure inside.

7. Independence.

Women love independent men that prioritize their relationship with them, i.e., make time for the couple. Both the woman and the man can have activities that they do together and activities that they do separately, and it is OK to be that way. The problem arises when a couple tries to do everything together or everything individually.

8. Optimism.

No woman wants a man who is always pessimistic and mentally exhausting. But at the same time, she doesn’t want an unrealistically optimistic person. She looks for the person who finds the lesson from the worst events and finds solutions when things go wrong. A person who encourages herself based on what she can do is a realistic optimist the woman appreciates.

9. Confidence and determinism.

When a man, despite his fears, tries and fights to get what he wants, there’s no way, as a woman, you won’t be attracted to him. And when he conveys his lover’s confidence by supporting her aspirations, there is no way she can’t fall in love with him.

10. Good hygiene.

A woman is attracted to a man who takes care of himself because, at the same time, he shows that he can take care of others.

11. Sense of humor.

Because you’ll be spending a lot of time together, a sense of humor can lighten the mood and make the time pass pleasantly.

Let’s talk about men. What does he want?

1. Importance.

The man wants to feel he can help the woman, allowing him to take care of her and protect her.

2. Appreciation.

The man needs to be appreciated for his qualities: his career, his relationships, that he is attractiveness, that he is intelligence, that he is good in bed, etc.

3. Respect.

In this case, what she wants and what he wants is common. The man wants to be respected for who he is and what he wants to be. We want the decisions he makes and the advice we give not to be in vain and to feel that he is listened to and respected.

4. Sex.

Connection through sex for men is as essential as a connection through communication is for women. It is through sex that a man realizes how much he cares and fits in with a woman.

5. Space.

If a woman tends to be closer to a man and wants to spend as much time as possible with him, the space offered is what he needs most.

6. Trust.

Trust that he can do what he wants and support his initiatives.

7. Connection.

He wants to feel that he has someone to communicate with, that he has someone to share his accomplishments with, and that you have things in common you can talk about.

8. Communication.

He wants you to tell him how you feel, not assume he can guess.

9. Self-development.

Just as he wants to be the best for you, so do you as a woman. To enjoy this makes the man love you more.

10. Take care of yourself.

Just as a woman appreciates a man who takes care of him, a man appreciates a woman who takes care of herself.

11. Safety.

The man wants to team up with his life partner and not always be on guard for conflicts arising from childish things.

I hope you enjoyed the article. For more information about men and women, I recommend All about women and All about men.

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